Poles Apart (Trust After Infidelity)

Poles Apart (Trust After Infidelity)

A magnet is a material or an object that creates a magnetic field. This field is invisible but it creates a force that either attracts or repels other magnets. If you try and push together the same poles of two magnets, you can easily feel this repellant force, that...
Surprising Emotions After An Affair

Surprising Emotions After An Affair

Infidelity is one of the most common causes of breakup and divorce. Discovering your spouses affair can cause extreme feelings of betrayal and confusion. There are endless questions that stream through one’s mind afterwards. It is important to note that not...
When Sex Is Not The Answer

When Sex Is Not The Answer

I’ve just got off a Skype call with a lovely couple in the U.S. and for the sake of *preserving their anonymity and because I want to share what was so miraculous about this call, I’ll refer to them as Louise and Bob. 30 years into their marriage, Bob had cheated on...
Self-Care After an Affair

Self-Care After an Affair

Being betrayed by an unfaithful partner can shatter your self-esteem and destroy your ability to trust others. While it’s important to recover from the initial fallout of the infidelity, it’s equally imperative that you take time to turn your attention to...
Restoring Intimacy After an Affair

Restoring Intimacy After an Affair

Extramarital affairs can greatly impact a couple’s ability to be intimate. The spouse who’s been cheated on often begins comparing themselves to the affair partner. Those who compare themselves may be able to connect intimately with their partner but their sex life is...
Should You Talk to Your Children About Infidelity?

Should You Talk to Your Children About Infidelity?

When one or other partner in a family has an affair, the whole atmosphere in the house changes in an instant. The betrayed partner is usually so wracked with hurt and pain, it is impossible to put a completely brave face on things to try and hide that anything is...