I Don’t Know My Husband Anymore

I Don’t Know My Husband Anymore

“My husband cheated on me and I don’t know who he is, or who I am anymore. I feel utterly lost. How can I re-find him and myself?” There is an assumption you are making in how you are looking at this; that you have at some point in your life, actually...
What If Only One Person Embraces Unconditional Love in A Marriage?

What If Only One Person Embraces Unconditional Love in A Marriage?

Marlene and Richard attended an intervention with me and my husband, Pete, early last year after Richard had confessed to a number of extra-marital affairs. After 22 years of marriage, Marlene was understandably distressed but quick to recognise that Unconditional...
When Infidelity Is A Mistake You Want To Put Right

When Infidelity Is A Mistake You Want To Put Right

My little 17 month old grandson was at our house recently and whilst he was exploring all of our cupboards as toddlers do, he accidentally knocked a pretty plate from the dresser above and it instantly shattered into several pieces. Holding his little hands in the...
Why Doesn’t An Unfaithful Spouse Feel Remorse?

Why Doesn’t An Unfaithful Spouse Feel Remorse?

Pete replies… There are a few reasons I can think of as to why an unfaithful spouse wouldn’t feel any remorse. 1. They were brought up with an entirely different set of values that you were 2. They feel justified in their choice to be unfaithful 3. They are...