Your Fork In The Road Choice After Infidelity

Your Fork In The Road Choice After Infidelity

Imagine you are driving along a road when you approach a fork ahead. The road to the left is a route you are very familiar with but there is a sign over it saying “Long Delays”. The road to the right, you are not familiar with but it has a sign above it saying “Scenic...
Poles Apart (Trust After Infidelity)

Poles Apart (Trust After Infidelity)

A magnet is a material or an object that creates a magnetic field. This field is invisible but it creates a force that either attracts or repels other magnets. If you try and push together the same poles of two magnets, you can easily feel this repellant force, that...
Surprising Emotions After An Affair

Surprising Emotions After An Affair

Infidelity is one of the most common causes of breakup and divorce. Discovering your spouses affair can cause extreme feelings of betrayal and confusion. There are endless questions that stream through one’s mind afterwards. It is important to note that not...
My Marriage Has Been A Lie

My Marriage Has Been A Lie

When I speak with betrayed spouses, who have recently learnt that their partners have been having an affair or affairs for a long time, the sense of betrayal can be overwhelming. They will often recall events or occasions from their marriage and life together and say...
When Sex Is Not The Answer

When Sex Is Not The Answer

I’ve just got off a Skype call with a lovely couple in the U.S. and for the sake of *preserving their anonymity and because I want to share what was so miraculous about this call, I’ll refer to them as Louise and Bob. 30 years into their marriage, Bob had cheated on...