Pete Uglow helps married couples
 recover from the pain and betrayal of infidelity and bring back hope for the future with the phenomenal power of unconditional love.


Pete Uglow has found a remarkable ability to help couples in situations of crisis or continued conflict within their marriage. A former Police Officer and Business Owner, he has retrained as a relationship-coach and together with Nikki Uglow, runs a private coaching company and growing community of people who are passionate about making the institute of marriage, a blessing in peoples lives rather than a burden or battle field.

Pete and Nikki Uglow understand the hardships that come with an affair. Through their personable approach, Pete and Nikki Uglow have been able to help hundreds of couples turn marriages on the brink of divorce or separation into flourishing connecting and loving relationships. Even for those who aren’t facing crisis within their marriage, Pete and Nikki Uglow can still teach individuals best practices for their relationships. Through workshops, seminars, and both online and offline courses, Pete and Nikki Uglow can help you understand the significance of unconditional love.


“Pete & Nikki Uglow are amongst the most genuine, sincere and “from the heart” people that I know. They are probably also amongst the most skilled and experienced people in the world, that are able to help anyone with communication, emotional, or relationship issues. They will help you easily cut through the pain and get the results that you are after with yourself and others. Let them help you.”


“I’m not really a testimonial writer. I would usually only be inspired to write if I was particularly unhappy about something, but in this case I am so very impressed, not to mention relieved and hopeful, that I felt compelled to share.
My husband and I were struggling and it looked like the end of the road for our marriage when we found the website. I really liked what I heard when I spoke with Pete and he took the time to reassure my husband that a three day intervention wouldn’t be the excruciating experience he feared. And it wasn’t. Not at all. Pete made us both feel understood and cared for, before gently guiding us towards the prospect of a happier infidelity-free future together. I left floating on cloud nine.”


“My wife and I discovered Pete at probably the lowest point of our marriage, but I now look back on that time as being the turning point of our entire lives. My wife was clearly telling me how unloved she felt by the behaviours she was exhibiting and in my own unloved state I chose to feel hurt and angry. 

Pete helped us see what we were doing to each other and that in trying to ‘get’ love from each other and elsewhere, we were only succeeding in driving the real thing away. 

We have had to relearn our whole view of the world, of what people’s behaviours are telling us and how our own behaviour gives away our emptiness. It has created an amazing bond between my wife and I and it has been a completely life changing experience.”


Recent Blogs


Why Doesn’t An Unfaithful Spouse Feel Remorse?

I was unfaithful to my wife and I now know why – because I was emotionally dying due to a lack of unconditional love in my life. I didn’t know any of this until my wife discovered my infidelity. I have since learnt that the world is mostly unaware of the true nature of unconditional love and the absolutely necessity to have it in our lives in order to become emotionally alive. I certainly was and I lived with an emotional pain that I was both unaware of and unaware of the things I did to try and reduce the pain.

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