Surprising Emotions After An Affair

Surprising Emotions After An Affair

Infidelity is one of the most common causes of breakup and divorce. Discovering your spouses affair can cause extreme feelings of betrayal and confusion. There are endless questions that stream through one’s mind afterwards. It is important to note that not...
When Sex Is Not The Answer

When Sex Is Not The Answer

I’ve just got off a Skype call with a lovely couple in the U.S. and for the sake of *preserving their anonymity and because I want to share what was so miraculous about this call, I’ll refer to them as Louise and Bob. 30 years into their marriage, Bob had cheated on...
Restoring Intimacy After an Affair

Restoring Intimacy After an Affair

Extramarital affairs can greatly impact a couple’s ability to be intimate. The spouse who’s been cheated on often begins comparing themselves to the affair partner. Those who compare themselves may be able to connect intimately with their partner but their sex life is...
Understanding Your Husband’s Feelings After His Affair

Understanding Your Husband’s Feelings After His Affair

As a wife trying to recover from infidelity, you’re likely to be experiencing a multitude of emotions ranging from disbelief, to sadness, to utter rage at such a betrayal of trust. Though I am sure it feels like the last thing you want to do, working to understand how...
Should You Date Someone Who Has a History of Infidelity?

Should You Date Someone Who Has a History of Infidelity?

Once a cheater always a cheater. I’ve previously written on the myths surrounding infidelity multiple times, as have other relationship experts, yet the saying just won’t seem to budge. It is an understandably sticky sentiment. A bit catchy and nicely alliterative, it...