Restoring Intimacy After an Affair

Restoring Intimacy After an Affair

Extramarital affairs can greatly impact a couple’s ability to be intimate. The spouse who’s been cheated on often begins comparing themselves to the affair partner. Those who compare themselves may be able to connect intimately with their partner but their sex life is...
Should You Date Someone Who Has a History of Infidelity?

Should You Date Someone Who Has a History of Infidelity?

Once a cheater always a cheater. I’ve previously written on the myths surrounding infidelity multiple times, as have other relationship experts, yet the saying just won’t seem to budge. It is an understandably sticky sentiment. A bit catchy and nicely alliterative, it...
What If Only One Person Embraces Unconditional Love in A Marriage?

What If Only One Person Embraces Unconditional Love in A Marriage?

Marlene and Richard attended an intervention with me and my husband, Pete, early last year after Richard had confessed to a number of extra-marital affairs. After 22 years of marriage, Marlene was understandably distressed but quick to recognise that Unconditional...