Surprising Emotions After An Affair

Surprising Emotions After An Affair

Infidelity is one of the most common causes of breakup and divorce. Discovering your spouses affair can cause extreme feelings of betrayal and confusion. There are endless questions that stream through one’s mind afterwards. It is important to note that not...
Self-Care After an Affair

Self-Care After an Affair

Being betrayed by an unfaithful partner can shatter your self-esteem and destroy your ability to trust others. While it’s important to recover from the initial fallout of the infidelity, it’s equally imperative that you take time to turn your attention to...
When ‘Love’ Changes

When ‘Love’ Changes

A fledgling relationship is not unlike finding a new favourite restaurant. The first time you dine there, you’re excited by all the menu items to explore and try, by the enchanting atmosphere, and by the flavours of each food you sample. You go back for more on a...
What If Only One Person Embraces Unconditional Love in A Marriage?

What If Only One Person Embraces Unconditional Love in A Marriage?

Marlene and Richard attended an intervention with me and my husband, Pete, early last year after Richard had confessed to a number of extra-marital affairs. After 22 years of marriage, Marlene was understandably distressed but quick to recognise that Unconditional...
The Real Power of Those Three Words

The Real Power of Those Three Words

The need for love and connection is a deeply human desire. We are gifted with the need for it at birth and require comfort and care just as much as we need oxygen to breathe, sustenance to stay strong, and shelter to keep us safe. Even before we reach adulthood, we...