Restoring Intimacy After an Affair

Restoring Intimacy After an Affair

Extramarital affairs can greatly impact a couple’s ability to be intimate. The spouse who’s been cheated on often begins comparing themselves to the affair partner. Those who compare themselves may be able to connect intimately with their partner but their sex life is...
What If Only One Person Embraces Unconditional Love in A Marriage?

What If Only One Person Embraces Unconditional Love in A Marriage?

Marlene and Richard attended an intervention with me and my husband, Pete, early last year after Richard had confessed to a number of extra-marital affairs. After 22 years of marriage, Marlene was understandably distressed but quick to recognise that Unconditional...
After Infidelity: Restoring Passion Through Unconditional Love

After Infidelity: Restoring Passion Through Unconditional Love

Affairs are full of secrecy, making them seem exciting, desperate, and passionate. They are unsafe, and so we experience surges of adrenaline that make us feel like we’re on top of the world. If you’re trying to repair your marriage after being unfaithful to your...
The Truth Behind a Marriage Lacking Physical Intimacy

The Truth Behind a Marriage Lacking Physical Intimacy

When you think of intimacy, what comes to mind? Many people attribute intimacy the physical aspect of relationships, but there are actually two kinds of intimacy—physical intimacy and emotional intimacy. Speaking generally, men are usually more inclined to need...