Your Fork In The Road Choice After Infidelity

Your Fork In The Road Choice After Infidelity

Imagine you are driving along a road when you approach a fork ahead. The road to the left is a route you are very familiar with but there is a sign over it saying “Long Delays”. The road to the right, you are not familiar with but it has a sign above it saying “Scenic...
Poles Apart (Trust After Infidelity)

Poles Apart (Trust After Infidelity)

A magnet is a material or an object that creates a magnetic field. This field is invisible but it creates a force that either attracts or repels other magnets. If you try and push together the same poles of two magnets, you can easily feel this repellant force, that...
When Sex Is Not The Answer

When Sex Is Not The Answer

I’ve just got off a Skype call with a lovely couple in the U.S. and for the sake of *preserving their anonymity and because I want to share what was so miraculous about this call, I’ll refer to them as Louise and Bob. 30 years into their marriage, Bob had cheated on...
Restoring Intimacy After an Affair

Restoring Intimacy After an Affair

Extramarital affairs can greatly impact a couple’s ability to be intimate. The spouse who’s been cheated on often begins comparing themselves to the affair partner. Those who compare themselves may be able to connect intimately with their partner but their sex life is...
Should You Date Someone Who Has a History of Infidelity?

Should You Date Someone Who Has a History of Infidelity?

Once a cheater always a cheater. I’ve previously written on the myths surrounding infidelity multiple times, as have other relationship experts, yet the saying just won’t seem to budge. It is an understandably sticky sentiment. A bit catchy and nicely alliterative, it...