Poles Apart (Trust After Infidelity)

Poles Apart (Trust After Infidelity)

A magnet is a material or an object that creates a magnetic field. This field is invisible but it creates a force that either attracts or repels other magnets. If you try and push together the same poles of two magnets, you can easily feel this repellant force, that...
Self-Care After an Affair

Self-Care After an Affair

Being betrayed by an unfaithful partner can shatter your self-esteem and destroy your ability to trust others. While it’s important to recover from the initial fallout of the infidelity, it’s equally imperative that you take time to turn your attention to...
Understanding Your Husband’s Feelings After His Affair

Understanding Your Husband’s Feelings After His Affair

As a wife trying to recover from infidelity, you’re likely to be experiencing a multitude of emotions ranging from disbelief, to sadness, to utter rage at such a betrayal of trust. Though I am sure it feels like the last thing you want to do, working to understand how...
I Don’t Know My Husband Anymore

I Don’t Know My Husband Anymore

“My husband cheated on me and I don’t know who he is, or who I am anymore. I feel utterly lost. How can I re-find him and myself?” There is an assumption you are making in how you are looking at this; that you have at some point in your life, actually...
What If Only One Person Embraces Unconditional Love in A Marriage?

What If Only One Person Embraces Unconditional Love in A Marriage?

Marlene and Richard attended an intervention with me and my husband, Pete, early last year after Richard had confessed to a number of extra-marital affairs. After 22 years of marriage, Marlene was understandably distressed but quick to recognise that Unconditional...