Understanding Your Husband’s Feelings After His Affair

Understanding Your Husband’s Feelings After His Affair

As a wife trying to recover from infidelity, you’re likely to be experiencing a multitude of emotions ranging from disbelief, to sadness, to utter rage at such a betrayal of trust. Though I am sure it feels like the last thing you want to do, working to understand how...
I Don’t Know My Husband Anymore

I Don’t Know My Husband Anymore

“My husband cheated on me and I don’t know who he is, or who I am anymore. I feel utterly lost. How can I re-find him and myself?” There is an assumption you are making in how you are looking at this; that you have at some point in your life, actually...
Should You Date Someone Who Has a History of Infidelity?

Should You Date Someone Who Has a History of Infidelity?

Once a cheater always a cheater. I’ve previously written on the myths surrounding infidelity multiple times, as have other relationship experts, yet the saying just won’t seem to budge. It is an understandably sticky sentiment. A bit catchy and nicely alliterative, it...
What If Only One Person Embraces Unconditional Love in A Marriage?

What If Only One Person Embraces Unconditional Love in A Marriage?

Marlene and Richard attended an intervention with me and my husband, Pete, early last year after Richard had confessed to a number of extra-marital affairs. After 22 years of marriage, Marlene was understandably distressed but quick to recognise that Unconditional...
After Infidelity: Restoring Passion Through Unconditional Love

After Infidelity: Restoring Passion Through Unconditional Love

Affairs are full of secrecy, making them seem exciting, desperate, and passionate. They are unsafe, and so we experience surges of adrenaline that make us feel like we’re on top of the world. If you’re trying to repair your marriage after being unfaithful to your...