Poles Apart (Trust After Infidelity)

Poles Apart (Trust After Infidelity)

A magnet is a material or an object that creates a magnetic field. This field is invisible but it creates a force that either attracts or repels other magnets. If you try and push together the same poles of two magnets, you can easily feel this repellant force, that...
When Sex Is Not The Answer

When Sex Is Not The Answer

I’ve just got off a Skype call with a lovely couple in the U.S. and for the sake of *preserving their anonymity and because I want to share what was so miraculous about this call, I’ll refer to them as Louise and Bob. 30 years into their marriage, Bob had cheated on...
I Don’t Know My Husband Anymore

I Don’t Know My Husband Anymore

“My husband cheated on me and I don’t know who he is, or who I am anymore. I feel utterly lost. How can I re-find him and myself?” There is an assumption you are making in how you are looking at this; that you have at some point in your life, actually...
What If Only One Person Embraces Unconditional Love in A Marriage?

What If Only One Person Embraces Unconditional Love in A Marriage?

Marlene and Richard attended an intervention with me and my husband, Pete, early last year after Richard had confessed to a number of extra-marital affairs. After 22 years of marriage, Marlene was understandably distressed but quick to recognise that Unconditional...
The Truth Behind a Marriage Lacking Physical Intimacy

The Truth Behind a Marriage Lacking Physical Intimacy

When you think of intimacy, what comes to mind? Many people attribute intimacy the physical aspect of relationships, but there are actually two kinds of intimacy—physical intimacy and emotional intimacy. Speaking generally, men are usually more inclined to need...