Poles Apart (Trust After Infidelity)

Poles Apart (Trust After Infidelity)

A magnet is a material or an object that creates a magnetic field. This field is invisible but it creates a force that either attracts or repels other magnets. If you try and push together the same poles of two magnets, you can easily feel this repellant force, that...
When Sex Is Not The Answer

When Sex Is Not The Answer

I’ve just got off a Skype call with a lovely couple in the U.S. and for the sake of *preserving their anonymity and because I want to share what was so miraculous about this call, I’ll refer to them as Louise and Bob. 30 years into their marriage, Bob had cheated on...
Understanding Your Husband’s Feelings After His Affair

Understanding Your Husband’s Feelings After His Affair

As a wife trying to recover from infidelity, you’re likely to be experiencing a multitude of emotions ranging from disbelief, to sadness, to utter rage at such a betrayal of trust. Though I am sure it feels like the last thing you want to do, working to understand how...
What If Only One Person Embraces Unconditional Love in A Marriage?

What If Only One Person Embraces Unconditional Love in A Marriage?

Marlene and Richard attended an intervention with me and my husband, Pete, early last year after Richard had confessed to a number of extra-marital affairs. After 22 years of marriage, Marlene was understandably distressed but quick to recognise that Unconditional...