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When Love Isn’t Love At All — the lie we are fed as children

When Love Isn’t Love At All — the lie we are fed as children

I want to preface this article with some kind of warning. The things I’m going to say may well, actually probably will, bring up resistance in you. You see, people generally romanticise their childhood, even when it was pretty dreadful. I know of one man who was left alone at the age of four, often for days at a time whilst his mother was out partying. He then had to feed himself on cat food as there was nothing else left in the house. Now as an adult he describes his childhood as “Not too bad” and “Pretty good at times”

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Can A Marriage Survive Infidelity?

Can A Marriage Survive Infidelity?

The simple answer is “Yes – a marriage can most definitely survive infidelity.” But, in a marriage, as in life, we don’t want to merely survive, we actually want to thrive, to grow, to experience better. There is nothing worse than feeling stuck and helpless and not knowing what to do about it.

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Why Do I Feel Bored?

Why Do I Feel Bored?

“My husband seems like the perfect man. He doesn’t go out, doesn’t drink and he goes to church. He is respectful and attentive. Why do I feel bored?”

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My Husband Is Hiding Something

My Husband Is Hiding Something

“My husband is hiding something. I’m pretty sure he is having an affair as I keep catching him texting and smiling, and then he acts all suspicious if I ask him about it. This makes me want to keep checking up on him, going through his pockets etc. I haven’t found anything definite yet. How can I find out for sure what’s going on? “

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His Flirting Hurts Me

His Flirting Hurts Me

“Everywhere we go, my husband is effusively charming to other women. Other people think he must be a wonderful husband but I just see him flirting. He’ll help girls on with their coat, laugh at their jokes, ask them about themselves, but he ignores me.
What’s wrong with me that he does this?”

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