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Your Fork In The Road Choice After Infidelity

Your Fork In The Road Choice After Infidelity

Imagine you are driving along a road when you approach a fork ahead. The road to the left is a route you are very familiar with but there is a sign over it saying “Long Delays”. The road to the right, you are not familiar with but it has a sign above it saying “Scenic...

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My Marriage Has Been A Lie

My Marriage Has Been A Lie

When I speak with betrayed spouses, who have recently learnt that their partners have been having an affair or affairs for a long time, the sense of betrayal can be overwhelming.They will often recall events or occasions from their marriage and life together and say something like “… and all the time, he was seeing her! Our marriage has been a complete lie.”

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When Sex Is Not The Answer

When Sex Is Not The Answer

I believed then that LOVE = SEX 

Many men (& some women) do. I genuinely believed that if I could get enough sex with Nikki, I would get rid of that emptiness and that was what I was craving. 

And naturally…. Nikki felt used by me and therefore sex was not something she willingly offered. 
It was a situation that meant I felt JUSTIFIED in going elsewhere for what I needed.

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